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in reply to lazynooblet

I contributed to this, but I always thought that the Western obsession with moving out at 18 was really weird and wasteful. Obviously everyone is different, but when I've talked to non Western residents who do family housing, one saves money on rent, food, housework, etc. Old people are cared for and have something to do, parents get help with baby sitting, kids haves more adult interactions.

That said, I've talked to enough non Western residents who this setting failed for them because their family was toxic. I'm sure that happens too.

I don't pretend to know about this very well, so please forgive me if this sounds like an authoritative word.

in reply to ButtBidet [he/him]

Spanish here. We move late* (traditionally when married somewhen in the twenties) and remain close to our families. We like it.

But that used to be a choice. You could move out sooner if you liked (in previous generations, only men,obviously).

The problem is when you can't even plan moving out before you are forty. Even if your family is not toxic, there's a very low chance of building your own life.

* From my perspective it is not late, it is just the right time.

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in reply to rauls5

@johnefrancis pretty weak… and they even manage to be oblivious that they spelled both "favourite" and "flavour" the non-Canadian way, just to drive home the pathetic attempt at #mapleWashing



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Open Lemmy comment threads in Mastodon?


Since both lemmy and Mastodon use the fediverse, is it possible to view comment threads under posts from lemmy in Mastodon? How to find a link that works in both/ is it related to the posts id?

Would these work with #hashtags ?

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in reply to scratsearcher 🔍🔮📊🎲

@AWUutgQ5inc7fMWpTk.fediverse@lemmy.ml hello, in my experience it is possible and yes, hashtags works. Right know I’m seeing your post and giving an answer from #Akkoma thanks to your hashtag.

In order to find a post (without the # ) you have to follow the community or account you are interest. Links work fine when you share it on Mastodon for example. The only difficult is to find a community because you don’t have the search options that you have in #Lemmy and makes it more easy. But hashtags are great to solve that barrier.


in reply to cyborganism

I spent about a decade as a KDE developer.

KDE has this mindset where if someone wants to implement something they think is cool, and the code is clean and mostly bug free, well -- have at it! Ever wonder why there's 300 options for everything?

Usually (because there's a bunch of people trying to optimize the core for speed and load times and such) this also means that the unused code-paths are required to not contribute negatively to things like load times. So a plugin like this that doesn't get loaded by default unless enabled, and thus doesn't harm everyone else's performance. It also means that if it stops working in the future and starts to bitrot, it can be dropped without affecting the core code.

in reply to schnurrito

In my entire life (and as context my earliest experiences with a PC predate the first consumer-available apple computer) there has not been a single time where I have felt the phrase "only Apple can achieve" to be worthy of anything other than a snort.

Apple's unshakable confidence that everything they do is earth shattering is overlapping heavily with that mediocre white man saying these days.

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