I am genuinely curious, because I got to thinking about my youth and the way I've been around people.
Personally I didn't learn to really connect with people. Or find a place in a community. So I just tried to figure out how to be...
Thinking about my school years, learning to be with other kids... Thinking about my mother and my grandparents, and family, learning to be with elders.... Thinking about peer, both in my private life and professional life, learning to find my place there... Thinking about my somewhat chaotic youth and young adulthood, with less than desired self control (and compassion).
How did I learn...? What was I taught directly, and what did I pick up subconsciously?
Honestly, I don't feel like I was taught any proper socialising skills. And I am not blaming anyone, just pondering. But I feel, looking back, that some support in communication, emotional regulation and mutuality could have gone a long way...
Fortunately that's where I am now. And learning for myself, and sharing my tho
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How did you learn to socialise?
I am genuinely curious, because I got to thinking about my youth and the way I've been around people.
Personally I didn't learn to really connect with people. Or find a place in a community. So I just tried to figure out how to be...
Thinking about my school years, learning to be with other kids... Thinking about my mother and my grandparents, and family, learning to be with elders.... Thinking about peer, both in my private life and professional life, learning to find my place there... Thinking about my somewhat chaotic youth and young adulthood, with less than desired self control (and compassion).
How did I learn...? What was I taught directly, and what did I pick up subconsciously?
Honestly, I don't feel like I was taught any proper socialising skills. And I am not blaming anyone, just pondering. But I feel, looking back, that some support in communication, emotional regulation and mutuality could have gone a long way...
Fortunately that's where I am now. And learning for myself, and sharing my thoughts about.
But I'm genuinely curious to hear your thoughts about where you learned to socialise...
And is there a difference, being a man, woman, agender, etc? As we learn...?
“Proper socializing skills” is an interesting phrase. What if the “proper” way is the way that works for you? We are all wired differently, with our own operating systems, so why should the same approaches work for us all? Like you, I grew up around a lot of adults that were my parents’ friends, as well as the kids at school, but I felt that neither were my “tribe”. I developed a hybrid way of socializing based on observations of not only how they interacted with me, but also each other. I eventually grew to the point where I was comfortable with the fact that I WAS different. Not better or worse, just different. I enjoy time interacting with people, but I enjoy my time alone just as much.
Italy is providing new financial support worth 14 million euros to Moldova through the United Nations Development Programme (UNDP) to strengthen social
To avoid soiling their own nest, they sort of stick their rear ends out a bit, but that doesn't go far enough, so they also add a well timed movement that catapults the poop away from the nest.
some years ago we were upset about the UAE threatening to make physical examination at the borders to prove homosexuality and so deny entry to tourists. It's 2025 and we are now teaching how people can enter or exit the Land of the Free without being arrested. What a time to be alive.
Funny thing is that what is happening in the US now just confirms the sentiments of many people in the Global South that the thing with spreading democracy and liberty is a lie. It always was.
@ticho This guide is specifically aimed at journalists, as you can see in the title and in my post. Journalists sometimes need to enter the United States as part of their work, even if they find it distasteful.
As in, DON'T travel to the US if you don't have to? DON'T bring any device to the US if you don't have to? DON'T bring your daily driver to the US, full stop. DON'T bring your personal device to the US, full stop.
@gme If you are a journalist, you sometimes have to go to places you don't want to go as part of your job. This guide is specifically for journalists doing their jobs. It says so in my post and it says so in the guide. If you have other advice for journalists, you are welcome to write and publish your own guide and your thoughts on the matter will be given all of the consideration that they deserve.
great advice. Will be sharing this — and keeping it in mind for myself. Always have tried to be cautious but the environment seems more… hostile today.
In response to the New York Daily News editorial that I linked to, ES&S sends along this reply: Paper ballots? Yes! By Tierra Williams, ES&S Regional Manager, New York It’s true: good old paper remains the best way to run … Continue reading ES&S Resp…
“About 500 severely normal Albertans, many as pissed as summer hornets, filled the hall to the brim.” Andrew Nikiforuk on a boisterous “coal town hall” with Premier Danielle Smith.
"Members of the majority, much to the dismay of Smith and company, all had one basic question: Why is her government supporting Australian coal magnates and ignoring Albertans concerned about their water security in a drying land overcast with smoke from persistent wildfires?
"The pathetic and disingenuous answer was this:
The government supports a wonderful thing called “responsible development” in the Rockies because what sensible person would support “irresponsible development”?"
After Moscow launched its one of the largest air assault on Kyiv since 2022, the European Union extended temporary protection for Ukrainian refugees by another full year.
A US bishop appointed by Pope Leo XIV has instructed a group of priests and deacons in his district to accompany migrants to court, according to a Newsweek report. Appointed as Bishop of San Diego, California, Rev.
In Little Tokyo, a five-block neighborhood east of downtown Los Angeles that is among the country’s largest Japanese American enclaves, news often gets delivered and shared at the century-old koban.
It’s a community security office similar to those in Japan, housed in a former police substation and named after a local hero from World War II. Brian Kito stood on the sidewalk outside the koban Wednesday, surveying the street that’s become a hot spot of activity after days of federal immigration raids in the region.
The federal building and an immigration detention center are nearby, and some of the protesters there have spilled into Little Tokyo.
Their anger has taken a toll: windows smashed at a sporting goods and auto supply shop, sporadic looting, graffiti on the Japanese American National Museum. Kito, president of the neighborhood’s public safety association, backs the demonstrations and all but a few of the people involved.
“I’ve tried to get the word out to protesters: 99 perc
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In Little Tokyo, a five-block neighborhood east of downtown Los Angeles that is among the country’s largest Japanese American enclaves, news often gets delivered and shared at the century-old koban.
It’s a community security office similar to those in Japan, housed in a former police substation and named after a local hero from World War II. Brian Kito stood on the sidewalk outside the koban Wednesday, surveying the street that’s become a hot spot of activity after days of federal immigration raids in the region.
The federal building and an immigration detention center are nearby, and some of the protesters there have spilled into Little Tokyo.
Their anger has taken a toll: windows smashed at a sporting goods and auto supply shop, sporadic looting, graffiti on the Japanese American National Museum. Kito, president of the neighborhood’s public safety association, backs the demonstrations and all but a few of the people involved.
“I’ve tried to get the word out to protesters: 99 percent we support their cause,” he said.
With admittedly no knowledge of who the men are, I’m rooting for the escapees.
4 men escaped from #DelaneyHall, a privately run #immigration #detention center in #Newark, during a disturbance Thurs after days of #unrest over conditions, acc/to #NewJersey law enforcement, a federal spox & other detainees’ attys.
“Additional law enforcement partners have been brought in to find these escapees,” Tricia McLaughlin, #DHS spox, said Fri in a text.
The detention center, known as #DelaneyHall, went into lockdown after dozens of law enforcement ofcls responded to reports of a disturbance inside the facility on Thurs evening….
A group of #immigrants inside the facility seemed to mount a revolt on Thurs following days of #unrest over the quality & timeliness of meals, the lawyers & relatives who spoke to the detainees over the phone said in interviews.
“People were #hungry & got very angry & started to react & started to rebel against what was going on in the #detention center,” said Ellen Whitt, a volunteer who works at #DIRE, an emergency #immigration hotline. A DIRE staff member received a call about 6PM from one detainee, Ms. Whitt said, & “when we were on the phone with him, we could hear screaming & yelling in the background.”
The detainee said that people were trying to break windows & that, at one point, guards seemed to have abandoned their posts….
A law enforcement ofcl familiar w/the details of the escape said that the missing men appeared to have exited through an unhinged piece of exterior siding.
Masked officers carrying plastic handcuffs & pepper spray could be seen entering the facility just after 7PM, & people standing nearby reported smelling a pungent odor.
…On Friday morning, officials at the #detention facility told #immigration lawyers with clients at #DelaneyHall that phone calls & visits had been suspended, said Karla Ostolaza, the managing director of the immigration practice at Bronx Defenders. The lawyers were told they should check back next week.
“We have no idea what is happening with our clients right now,” Ms. Ostolaza said.
Mustafa Cetin, a lawyer who has been representing a Turkish man working toward citizenship, said he got an email from the facility at 7:37 a.m. on Friday notifying him that “all movement,” including meetings with lawyers, had been canceled “until further notice.”
Mr. Cetin’s client had been detained about two weeks ago after a routine court appearance in Newark.
#DelaneyHall is run by one of the country’s largest private prison companies, the #GEOGroup, which has a contract w/the #Trump admin to hold as many as 1k #immigrants at a time. A spox for the GEO Group referred questions to #Ice.
The controversy at Delaney Hall comes as Trump has escalated his #immigration crackdown in recent weeks, especially in nearby #NYC. A number of immigrants who have been arrested in immigration #courts & ICE offices in the city have been transferred to Delaney Hall….
#ICE entered into a $1B contract w/the #GEOGroup to operate the facility, which began housing detainees last month. Democratic ofcls in #NewJersey have opposed its opening, leading to a lawsuit, #protests & a clash outside the facility that led to the arrest of #Newark’s #mayor & assault charges against US #House Rep #LaMonicaMcIver, a NJ #Democrat. McIver, who has maintained her innocence, is scheduled to be arraigned on Mon & has said she will enter a not-guilty plea.
private prison companies have a nasty habit (I've posted about them before) of cramming as many inmates as humanly possible into their facilities, regardless of the max capacity, and the government, (ie their only client) does nothing to discourage this*, in fact the whole system is skewed to maximize profits. Recreational and exercise facilities are preempted for housing. There's no guarantee that possessions are safe because you are literally living in a gym with another hundred people. It's not rehabilitation, it's dehumanizing abuse.
* A big discouragement would be to only pay for the number of people under the capacity... And penalize for exceeding.
Vladimir Putin’s summer offensive is fully under way: all day and night, Russian infantrymen run at Ukrainian positions in endless waves. Even when struck,
Liquid Glass feels like that earliest reveal of Aqua — flashy, and completely over the top and needing twelve months of refinement and public feedback to get the balance quite right. The problem is, Apple's yearly schedule doesn't allow for that kind of iteration before release; we have about a week or two to get our feedback in, but this plane's going to land in September regardless
Avec sa série de frappes meurtrières menées en Iran contre des cibles militaires et nucléaires, Israël a assassiné plusieurs hauts gradés des forces armées et
This week, Brian Wilson became the last of the Wilson brothers to shuffle off this mortal coil. Dennis, the first of the Wilsons to go, died young in 1983 — but not before offering this memorable assessment of the family musical project: 'Brian Wilso…
The disconnect is strange: Apple keeps talking about putting the focus on content rather than chrome; but the new UI elements are literally the most prominent thing in the new design. Raised sidebar, raised toolbar buttons—aesthetically these are nice, but they’re so attention-grabbing?!
The University of Chicago has announced the launch of the Berggren Center for Quantum Biology and Medicine, which will combine quantum technology with biology
Up now on @makemagazine and @hackster_io ! Our latest open source certification round up featuring work from David Yang and shuang cai on the programmable mistmaker, the CEAZA snow scale and the Survivors mechanical prosthetic hand! Read all about them right here: hackster.io/news/may-2025-open…
It's cool seeing more work done in that space. Ian Davis ( youtube.com/@missingpartsclub/… ) has been making a really cool prosthetic for himself, but it's not exactly the sort of think that you could make with a standard FDM printer
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Data from a survey done by Self Financial found that 45% of people have a side hustle in addition to holding a full-time position. From online reselling to
On the same day a military parade unfolds in D.C. to mark the Army’s 250th anniversary on Saturday, an organized day of protests against the policies of President Donald Trump’s administration is planned for more than 2,000 cities nationwide. While thunderstorms could disrupt the celebrations in D.C., weather will vary at locations around the country where rallies are planned. Mostly dry and hot weather will dominate the western United States,
while it should be more damp and unsettled near the East Coast because of a front sprawled over the Mid-Atlantic.
To the north of the front, it will be damp and cool.
South of the front, warm and humid air could fuel heavy afternoon and evening thunderstorms. washingtonpost.com/weather/202…
Another one for the graveyard: Google to kill Instant Apps in December It was a good idea that arrived too late to matter. arstechnica.com/gadgets/2025/0…
What went wrong in Newtok, Alaska? The small town was supposed to be a model for communities that will need to move in the coming decades because of climate
Up now on @makemagazine and @hackster_io ! Our latest open source certification round up featuring work from David Yang and shuang cai on the programmable mistmaker, the CEAZA snow scale and the Survivors mechanical prosthetic hand! Read all about them right here: hackster.io/news/may-2025-open…
Going to reserve judgment until the official release. But it feels like there are super obvious reasons why glass have been tried and failed so many times in UI.
Energy markets price in increased risk following Israeli strikes on Iran but impact on fundamentals limited Retaliation from Iran highly likely, strong
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